My Everything - The Distance

Posted by cibol on 8:33 PM
"How do you maintain a long distance relationship?"

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For a moment I was stunned. I would've never imagined being asked that question. I paused and said;

"I do not know how, really. But I guess giving in and being able to tolerate with whatever comes along the way does help"

Anyone who's ever been in a long-distance relationship can certainly tell you how hard it can be to make a long-distance relationship work but not all will say that they perfectly know how did they make it work.

I do not believe that anybody like or intends to end up in a long-distance relationship, but sometimes it just happens. No one chooses to be in a long distance relationship, often at times they choose you. Along the way you might hear or met people that does not believe in a long distance relationship at all.

Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; sometimes you like to think that it is true but there are some times that you might not. Emotionally some times it does hurt. It hurts because you can't be there if you're special someone needs you the most, you can't be the crying shoulder, you can't be there for whatever reason that is there when needed - it really hurts.

Some might say that you need a lot of faith in each other, yes I do agree but that is my dear friend, sometimes ; easier said than done. Even if you're not in one you sometimes find that it is quite difficult to do, what more to say in a long distance relationship?

Dealing with conflicts and when differences in opinions surface is quite a tough situation to handle. It's difficult to express yourself clearly on the phone without having to touch, to look that person in the eye and not being able to use your body language at one time. Sometimes, conflicts will be left unattended. Sad, but true.

But a few things I learn along the way is developing understanding, the word sacrifice, give more and expect less - does make a different. Although it's not easy but it's a thing that I myself personally want to do, sincerely. It was not always a smooth ride, sometimes there will be some rough patches somewhere but the experiences does matter. It somehow make me stronger and a better person.

And for that reason, I would like to wish my one and only, the love of my life, my dearest baby a happy birthday! And I dedicate this lovely song just for my baby.

Distance is not the hardest part, it is having to listen to the people who swear it won't work!

Every night I pray on bended knees that you will always be my everything. I am glad to have you in my life.

*Hugs and kisses*


Wah, so cweet!!! Wonder who is the lucky girl! Btw, I agree that it is always easier said than done. It takes two to tango, so both side have to play their part in keeping the relationship going. There's always Skype (video chatting) you know, except the touching part, hehe...

But I guess this kind of relationship will test both sides to the max and that will really tell how strong the relationshop is! :)

wao...i personally think that LDR is really hard and difficult to maintain...even if it's work for me ..i guess the relationship not that strong anymore for me...since 2 ppl so far apart while things happened cant actually share...but how sweet u both ..all the best to you both!! ^-^~*

Tell me about it..me into LDR for the past 10 years...sometime it's hard...but we have to have faith...not easy...

Happy Birthday to you Lily...many return of the days..

All the best to you and me in our LDR... :)

reading this post is like reading my own life story...my inner voice!! sob! sob!!

i can so totally relate to what you wrote! only realized that LDRs are actually so prevalent after i began to follow blogs again >.<

another thing to note is, both individuals involved have to work together to make sure the relationship can survive such trials, it's not sth that can be achieved one-sidedly.

happy birthday to your sweet gf, sincerely hoping that the both of you can make it work :)

Happy Birthday to your baby. Get registered and she can ask for a transfer and you need not have a long-distance love affair anymore. Can have the wedding proper later... ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!

This is sweet. I don't believe in long distance relationships because in the first place, one gets into a relationship to be together and share the ups and downs together. Now if one is away for long-term, what's the point? It's just not the same as having someone close by.

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